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A colleague was saying to me last week how exhausting it was dealing with all the social things she suddenly had happening since lockdown started easing. I've seen lots of people on social media posting about the things they're doing now, too. Meanwhile, the only change that the easing of lockdown has made to me over the last few weeks is that, as of 29 March, I've been able to swim with both of my swimming friends at once*. I haven't been to shops, pubs or restaurants; none of my team are going back into the office on a regular basis just yet; and I haven't seen anyone apart from my swimming friends in person**.

I almost miss lockdown, when being a weird antisocial gremlin who never has weekend plans and uses pretty much all their social spoons for work was so much less detectably different from everyone else, and I didn't feel that I had to camouflage my lack of friends-I-see-in-person-on-a-regular-basis*** behind vague mutterings about people not living nearby (though that is also true for most of the people I'd really like to see in person, but I'm not sure the people who see lots of people find it that convincing. Or not just as weird as not wanting to rush out and see people after four months of lockdown).

*Although as one friend has just had surgery which had been put off several times due to COVID, for the next few weeks I'll only be swimming with the other friend anyway.

**Saying which, on Friday I will be going into the office and having an outdoor six-person leaving tea for a colleague who is retiring.

***And, indeed, interest in spending my weekends peopling when I could be sewing and recovering from another hard week on Teams and not having to navigate masks and social distancing arrangements and worrying about people getting too close.
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It's a year since I abandoned my attempt at Couch to 5k after falling over and spraining my wrist, and decided to go for walks before work instead. I haven't been for a walk every day since then: some days I've chosen to start work early so I can take time for a swim later on; a few times last summer I went for early swims at Port Meadow instead; there have been a few days when it has just been too wet; and for some of Michaelmas Term I was in the office a couple of days a week, and although I parked in Summertown and walked from there, commute-walking isn't the same as walk-walking. I have, however, tracked more than 200 walks in Runkeeper; last year I clocked up just over 500 miles and this year I've already done almost 250 in three and a half months.

There aren't a lot of options for 3-4 mile walks starting from my front door. Down the canal towpath to the nature reserve and back. Up the canal towpath to the Jolly Boatman, through the woods to Thrupp and back along the towpath. Across the fields or along the cycle path to Begbroke, along the bridleway and back via Yarnton; across the fields or along the cycle path to Begbroke, up to the top of the hill and back the way I didn't come; across the fields or along the cycle path to Begbroke, up to the top of the hill and down the other way and back via Yarnton (that is one of my favourites, and is the one where you can just see Oxford, but it's actually four and a half miles so needs a bit of extra time). Through the streets to the church and back via the fields and the canal towpath (you can go either side of the fields, and with a bit of extra time you can go across the meadows and through the woods instead); through the streets to the church and down to the river (though that's my least favourite, as you have to go back through the streets which tend to be getting busier by then, so I've only tended to do that one when it's meant I was walking towards a stunning sunrise rather than having my back to it). I must have done each of these dozens of times in the last twelve months, and yet I haven't got bored, because there's always something new to see.

Pale green oak leaves just unfurling on a branch.


I've learnt the lay of my few square miles of countryside in a way I never thought I would. I've been surprised to realise just how few walks there are where I can't see the church spire at all, or the Forest Hill transmitter. I've found the one spot where you can see the spires of the city centre, which I haven't seen from closer to since last March. I've watched the seasons move through a full cycle; I've learnt to recognise far more plants and trees than I could before, and I've seen wildlife both expected (deer, muntjacs, hares, skylarks, red kites) and unexpected (otters!). I've taken a lot of photos, and I think I've got much better at it.

A bright blue narrowboat moored against a canal bank.
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It's a year today since I last went to the cinema. The last time I travelled by train will be a year ago sometime in the nebulous space between Sunday and Monday, because it was on the 29th, and it turns out that the last time I had a meal in a restaurant, which I thought was early March, was actually on the 21st of February, so that's already more than a year ago. It's strange, looking back. I know I was already worrying about COVID by then, but I had absolutely no idea (how could I have done?) just how quickly things would escalate from there.

At this stage, I feel quite ambivalent about the prospect of lockdown easing. I'm very much looking forward to being able to swim as a three again, and it would be nice to be able to go for walks somewhere different. And I really want to see my parents again. But I don't want to go to shops, or the hairdressers, and even though working from home has its downsides I don't miss the commute. And it no longer feels like "going back to normal". This is normal now, and while it would definitely be improved by occasionally going to different places and having a wider choice of takeaway options*, I've got used to it, and I'm quite worried that I've actually forgotten how to exist in spaces with lots of people in them and that it's going to be hard to relearn that.


*if we want delivery, and who wouldn't, it's curry, Chinese, kebabs or Dominos, because none of the Oxford restaurants will deliver outside the ring road. I am very jealous of friends who can get sushi and Wagamama and pub lunches delivered.

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