Census day (80/365)
Mar. 21st, 2021 11:28 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Today is census day in the UK, and I just filled ours out. I'm slightly perplexed by the insistence that answers to the questions about workplace and travel to work are supposed to be filled out for now, while we're still locked down in the middle of a global pandemic, and not for what we would have done in normal times, and I really hope this doesn't end up being used to justify cutting public transport funding "because no-one is using it".
I dithered a bit on the "national identity" question and ended up putting "European" and "British but embarrassed about it" in the write-in box. ("British but embarrassed about it" is basically accurate".) I also used the write-in box for sexuality to put "biromantic asexual", and dithered a bit about the gender identity question because today is one of the days when "female" feels more or less OK, but then I remembered all the days when it doesn't so wrote in "demigender" instead. (I'm not convinced "demigender" is actually right; on the whole I mostly just think gender is bullshit, but I don't find being identified as female or using she/her pronouns particularly painful - I get more of a niggling sense of concealing something than a feeling of actual wrongness - so demigender feels like a reasonable alternative to writing a whole essay about it.)
Anyway, that's that for another ten years.
I dithered a bit on the "national identity" question and ended up putting "European" and "British but embarrassed about it" in the write-in box. ("British but embarrassed about it" is basically accurate".) I also used the write-in box for sexuality to put "biromantic asexual", and dithered a bit about the gender identity question because today is one of the days when "female" feels more or less OK, but then I remembered all the days when it doesn't so wrote in "demigender" instead. (I'm not convinced "demigender" is actually right; on the whole I mostly just think gender is bullshit, but I don't find being identified as female or using she/her pronouns particularly painful - I get more of a niggling sense of concealing something than a feeling of actual wrongness - so demigender feels like a reasonable alternative to writing a whole essay about it.)
Anyway, that's that for another ten years.
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Date: 2021-03-21 11:50 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-03-21 02:34 pm (UTC)I'd have refused the sex question too had that been an option due to the thing you mention (what would it cost them to include an 'x'?) but as it was I made do with good old 'f'.
I've spent all too much of my life being erased!
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Date: 2021-03-22 04:21 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-03-21 07:34 pm (UTC)I'm certainly English/British, but I also have Romani and Jewish blood and it's made impossible to answer in more than one area.
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Date: 2021-03-21 07:03 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-03-22 10:52 am (UTC)I wish I'd thought of 'British but embarrassed about it'.
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Date: 2021-03-22 12:58 pm (UTC)As a member of one of the odder small Christian(ish) sects, I know I'm a member of a small minority within a small minority (not the only one I'm a member of in truth) :o) so I hate seeing the stats abused as they have been.
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Date: 2021-03-22 01:13 pm (UTC)For national identity I was very happy to be able to record “Welsh “ (and was able to tick read/write/speak/understand Welsh)
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Date: 2021-03-22 07:14 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2021-04-02 06:31 pm (UTC)) I also used the write-in box for sexuality to put "biromantic asexual"
Hey, so did my flatmate :) And given the givens it does sound like demigender was the best fit when required to put something unboxable in a box!