am fairly sure that no matter how masculine-of-centre I dress the vast majority of people are going to look at me and see a she
Honestly I thought that too and have been surprised at how little effort gets me called "he" or "mate" or little kids saying stuff like "why does that man have a stick?"
Which is not to say you should or have to do that. But it might not be as out of the question as you imagine. :)
I'm sorry you can't make your announcement yet! Happy they/them pronouns, anyway.
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Date: 2021-10-04 06:47 pm (UTC)Honestly I thought that too and have been surprised at how little effort gets me called "he" or "mate" or little kids saying stuff like "why does that man have a stick?"
Which is not to say you should or have to do that. But it might not be as out of the question as you imagine. :)
I'm sorry you can't make your announcement yet! Happy they/them pronouns, anyway.