I went out for a walk with my kid the other day, bare hairy legs on show (in a dress but out! in! public!). Fine once I was out, but a bit hard to screw myself up to that sticking point (annoyingly). My kid in the meantime is adamant that she will never shave her legs; I tell her that she needs to see what peer pressure feels like, it may be that she will change her mind in the face of that and not to be ashamed if so, cos it's hard.